Would you like to have a younger boyfriend? What do you think of this phenomenon?
In the past few years , it seems the number of older women dating younger men increased. Everybody talks about Dra. Bello and Dr. Hayden, Kris Aquino and James Yap, Eula Valdez and Richard Litonjua, Pops Fernandez and Jomari Yllana .
Do you think these relationships will last? What do you think are the extra obstacles that need to be overcome in a relationship when the guy is younger by 7 years or more? Why are the younger men choosing to be with the older women?
In my own opinion, men in general want to be treated like "babies", they want to be cared and pamper and maybe they find these kind of relationship nurturing for them plus the fact that older women appear to be wiser,more aggressive and usually not the clingy type.
However, relationships wherein women are far older than their partner would be hard later on when the women starts to sag and the men are still in their peak. the sex part i think is also important - young men had stronger stamina which i think older women loves it.
Although it is becoming a trend these days, relationship before the saying "age doesn’t matter in love". Only, that now it is becoming more open and more acceptable - what i don’t like are those people around them who usually condemned those guys who had a relationship with younger women….. Older women should know where they stand and should not really express too much, in public, the affections they have for their younger partners. they should know better because they are older?
In general, there is nothing wrong with it, its but a natural thing to fall in love and be loved in return - and we hope that they have a happy relationship in the long run. It is also something to be admired for the guys who really and truly falls for older women not only using the older women to get something from their older partners.
And i think men are getting more smarter in choosing female who has already a stable life to begin with. but i dont see anything wrong if these women choose to love younger men, as long as their happy, then be it….its your life…your rule…. so live your life to the fullest… di ba??
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hmmmmmm… will it last, kung sa artista siguro eh hindi… kasi naman… sa trabaho nila ay maraming hindrances towards a good trelationship… daming pagseselosan eh…
pero kung ibubukod natin sila, hmm para sa mga non-showbiz siguro…
ang girlfriend ko po ay older than me… 19 na sya next week ako ay 18 pa lang… will that coun?? heheh
i think that men who gets into relationship with older women seeks more affection rather than those who go for the younger ones.. diba…
pero dat’s what i think.. mas gusto ng mga lalake ang paglalambing ng babaeng mas matanda kesa sa bata… parang style nanay ba… ganun…
hehehe
Posted by palaboy at May 23, 2008, 12:18 pm