Are you a good adviser? or are you the one who always seeks for an advice?
Well all of us always can give or received an advice from our friends, parents, or lovers….
Some really seek an advice from a professional adviser….
But my question is??? Is it really possible or a criteria for us to be a good adviser if we really experience that particular situation?
From my experience i can say that am a GOOD adviser… to others(ehem…hehehe..
) but not to my self
… well thats the reality in our life…. i also know some… persons..whom a good adviser.. but once you look at their own lives…you can say that ahhh… is this person telling me the right thing????
after all whatever advice we received…. from our friends… we still got a freewill to follow them or follow our own way…. di ba?….
And if ever they didn’t follow what did you advice to them… just make sure also that if they come back to you and tell you that "you were right… why i didn,t follow you?" just let them feel that no matter what………. your always there for them…. still a good friend to LEAN on….
Well for me i can say that once you need to advice someone make sure that you always have to look on both sides.. dont be a BIAS just because she’s/he’s your friend……
di ba my FRIEND????
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