DUMPED?

Dumped?

Being  DUMPED allows you a chance to take a fresh look at your life. It gives you a chance to get in touch with your feelings. It teaches about freedom. This is a freedom so few people take the time to appreciate it . How soon the pain subsides is depend on each of us. Mourning for a lost love relationship is natural, normal and healthy. Any loss requires a period of grieving. How long and in what manner a person mourns is also depend upon each of us. Some people appear to move almost effortlessly through a breakup while others take a long time to get their lives back on track. Length of recovery time is not an indicator of how much we cared.

Keep thinking that he or she will return? Depends upon the nature of the breakup and that person's previous history. If phone calls are brief and impersonal or messages not returned, take the hint. Give them space. If they want to get back into your life, they'll make a move. At that point, you will have the option of responding. Perhaps by that time you'll have new interests and not  interested in renewing the relationship.  
Allow yourself some time to reflect upon the relationship, then stop speculating about what you could have done to keep the relationship together. Some relationships just won't work.
Is this your first failed relationship or do you have a history of failures? What is different about this one than the last and the one before that? U  should be able to see the  patterns. Does each relationship have the same pattern ? If you can see the patterns, you can learn and make changes so that future relationships stand more of a chance of survival.


Don't  ever run headlong into another relationship. Take your time. No matter how difficult it seems. Slow down. Stop. Observe. Not every couple you see is happy to be with each other. While you're envying their couple hood one or the both of them may be envying your single status. There are much worse things than being single. One is being part of an unhappy couple.
Try to avoid those things you did as a couple that will trigger memories. We all have special partner destined to be with, Memories are fine but if they make us particularly sad you should totally forget about him/her.
Mourn your lost love. Then MOVE on. It will take time, but the pain will get less and less, and one day it will be gone. Believed me its true and you can do it too.

You are not ALONE. Everyone gets dumped  SURVIVED in the end.